DM setter for relationship coaches: Never leave a struggling couple's first message unanswered.
The first message about a struggling relationship usually comes from just one partner. SetLuca answers with care, the way you write, and helps you figure out who else needs to be in the room.
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Your DMs, answered like you answered them.
Example conversations, written the way you write. Auto-send is on by default. Switch any channel to review and its replies wait for your approval.
- @trying.alone.taraReplied
my partner won't come to something like this, can I still start?
yes, a lot of people start solo, it still shifts the dynamic, even if you're the only one in the room at first. want to tell me a bit about what's going on?
SetLuca · reply
- @same.fight.samReplied
we have the same fight every week and I'm exhausted
the repeat fight is usually about the pattern underneath, not the topic itself. sessions are $180, and we can do them together or start with just you. want to book a first one?
SetLuca · reply
- @curious.coupleReplied
how do your sessions work, do we come together every time?
mostly together, though sometimes I'll meet with each of you separately too, depending on what's coming up. want to grab an intro call so I can hear where things stand?
SetLuca · reply
Why do relationship coaches run SetLuca?
It handles a sensitive first message with care
Reaching out about a struggling relationship takes courage. SetLuca learned how you acknowledge that from your own conversations, so the first reply meets the moment.
It sorts solo starts from couples ready together
One partner messaging alone is a different conversation than both partners ready to book. SetLuca asks the right follow-up and adjusts from there.
Follow-ups stay gentle
Someone who goes quiet after a hard first message hasn't walked away. They're catching their breath. SetLuca checks in the way you would, days later, with no pressure tactics.
How does SetLuca work for relationship coaches?
Connect a channel
Connect Telegram, Instagram, or Messenger today; WhatsApp is coming soon. SetLuca starts with new messages after connection.
SetLuca replies, you stay in control
SetLuca replies to a relationship coach's DMs in under a minute, the way you write. Auto-send is on by default. Switch any channel to review and its replies wait for your approval.
The call gets booked
Once a lead qualifies, SetLuca offers your real calendar and books the call.
Questions
What relationship coaches ask us.
If something here isn't covered, book a demo and we'll show you live.
Only one partner is messaging me. Does SetLuca assume the other one is on board?
Scheduling with two people is harder than booking one person. Can SetLuca actually handle that?
The first message is often really raw. Does SetLuca get the tone right?
Someone goes quiet after a hard first message. Does SetLuca chase them?
See how pricing scales with reply volume, or read how SetLuca keeps a connected account safe.
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For relationship coaches
Every relationship coach has unread leads. You don't have to.
Connect a channel tonight. Tomorrow's DMs get answered the way you write, sorted by who's ready to buy. No relationship coach should lose a lead to a slow reply.
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