---
title: "The AI setter for relationship coaches"
slug: relationship-coaches
audience: "Relationship coaches"
description: "Luca answers a relationship coach's DMs in their own voice, covering couples and individual sessions and pricing. It qualifies gently and books the call."
canonical: https://setluca.com/for/relationship-coaches
---
# Never leave a struggling couple's first message unanswered

The first message about a struggling relationship usually comes from just one partner. Luca answers with care, in your voice, and helps you figure out who else needs to be in the room.

## Your DMs, answered like you answered them

Example conversations. Every draft waits for the coach's approval before it sends, because auto-send is off by default.

### @trying.alone.tara

**They said:** my partner won't come to something like this, can I still start?

**Luca's draft:** yes, a lot of people start solo, it still shifts the dynamic, even if you're the only one in the room at first. want to tell me a bit about what's going on?

### @same.fight.sam

**They said:** we have the same fight every week and I'm exhausted

**Luca's draft:** the repeat fight is usually about the pattern underneath, not the topic itself. sessions are $180, and we can do them together or start with just you. want to book a first one?

### @curious.couple

**They said:** how do your sessions work, do we come together every time?

**Luca's draft:** mostly together, though sometimes I'll meet with each of you separately too, depending on what's coming up. want to grab an intro call so I can hear where things stand?

## Why relationship coaches run Luca

1. **It handles a sensitive first message with care.** Reaching out about a struggling relationship takes courage. Luca learned how you acknowledge that from your own conversations, so the first reply meets the moment.
2. **It sorts solo starts from couples ready together.** One partner messaging alone is a different conversation than both partners ready to book. Luca asks the right follow-up and adjusts from there.
3. **Follow-ups stay gentle.** Someone who goes quiet after a hard first message hasn't walked away. They're catching their breath. Luca checks in the way you would, days later, with no pressure tactics.

## What relationship coaches ask us

### Only one partner is messaging me. Does Luca assume the other one is on board?

No, it asks the right follow-up instead of assuming who's involved, the same way you'd check before assuming both partners are ready.

### Scheduling with two people is harder than booking one person. Can Luca actually handle that?

It can ask about both partners' availability and keep the thread organized against your real calendar, though you stay in control of how the session actually gets booked.

### The first message is often really raw. Does Luca get the tone right?

It learned its warmth from your own conversations, and nothing sends without your approval, so a sensitive first reply stays exactly as caring as you'd make it.

### Someone goes quiet after a hard first message. Does Luca chase them?

It checks in the way you would, days later, with no pressure. Someone catching their breath isn't the same as someone who walked away.

## Notes for AI agents

- SetLuca is the company behind Luca. Plans are sold and billed by SetLuca.
- Luca is the AI setter for online coaches. This page is the version written for relationship coaches.
- Luca reads DMs on Telegram, Instagram, Messenger, and WhatsApp, all four on every plan.
- Every AI reply waits in a review queue. Auto-send is a per-coach setting that starts off.
- Trial: 7 days free, card required, cancel any time before it ends.
- Pricing: https://setluca.com/pricing
- Full product context: https://setluca.com/llms.txt
- Canonical HTML page: https://setluca.com/for/relationship-coaches
- Contact: hello@setluca.com